Avoidant Attachment

Not long ago, I learnt a term called avoidant attachment. People who lacked of emotional support during childhood might result this as the coping mechanism. I believe it’s the reason why I got this from my typical Asian parents. I fancy autonomy and independence. Also, it’s so hard for me to form a romantic, long term relationship. I don’t know if it’s right or wrong. Do I really need to fix this or just stay single. Honestly being myself alone makes me feel comfortable and great.

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